Love hurts sometimes, even when you love or are in love. Some say that there is a difference, but I don’t see one at all. Love is love regardless of who or where it comes from. You can give love. You can get love. You can take love. But in order to secure love, you must make sacrifices. These sacrifices may not feel nice. These sacrifices may hurt so bad that they don’t seem like love at all. You may even begin to think that love is hate. However, love is not hate, but love is sacrifice.
At times you may have to sacrifice your time, your money, your space, your life, your friends, your family, or your heart! Oh, your heart. How fragile it is! Your heart is an organ…an organ…that is it. But love is a feeling that people “associate” with the heart. However, it is a feeling inside, but inside your soul. It shines so bright that nothing can hide it. You love so HARD that know one can deny it. It doesn’t matter if you are young or old…love will hurt!
However, don’t expect love to do all the work. Love alone won’t always keep things tight. Love expects for the individuals to do their part and do it right. Love has friends that you may need to get to know. Patience, honesty, trust, responsibility, compassion, attentiveness, and many, many more. You need to get to know them if you want love to grow. Yes, LOVE may hurt, but pain goes away in time. However, if your love continues to hurt, then love may be nothing more than something only in YOUR mind.
Yes, love hurts because love is not perfect. Love is definitely not vain. Love is not choosy. Love is not always sane. Some people are CRAZY in Love. Love can come in all forms and sizes. Love can give you all kinds of surprises.
However, if love hurts to touch, then love isn’t love at all. Love is a facade for a relationship gone wrong.