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Do you know when to kick people out of your circle?


Sometimes people only show you the side of them they want you to see.  They pretend to love and adore you.  They offer you advice that they wouldn’t dare take themselves.  They deep down inside would rather see you destitute  and alone than rich with health, wealth, and friendship.

Be aware.  Sniff these hypocrits out so that you can decrease your circle’s radius of these wolves wearing sheep’s clothing and increase  your circle’s diameter with  people that will radiate you and not deflate you.

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Posted by on January 5, 2016 in I Am She

 

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Are you that Crab in a Pot?

Are you that Crab in a Pot?

Have you ever noticed how crabs that are caught in a net, dangling from the end of the bait, about to be cooked in a pot, hold on to each other for dear life? I know you have noticed. You can’t help but notice. Well, they grab each other by the legs and by the claws and they pull and pull until they damn near break each other’s legs off. In some cases, they do break off the legs and claws. In extreme cases, they kill each other. I know you are wondering where this is going, right? Well, if you know me, you know I am fitting to tell you!

Are you a crab? I am not talking about literally a crab, but figuratively speaking. Are you that person that sees your friend, associate, or maybe a rival, getting ahead and you hate on them, sabotage them, or make their accomplishment seem like it is mediocre? In other words, you young folk, may refer to this “crab behavior” as being a “hater”.

Well, I say, don’t hate the player, hate the game. What God Has For You is For You! No man, woman, crab, or hater can take that away. Anyway, back to my crabs, they pull and hold on, but failing to realize that the more they hold on to what the other crab has, the more they put themselves closer to the boiling pot. Humph, I think all of us have been a crab at some point in our lives; however, the crabs that miss the boiling pot are the ones who realize that they must just LET IT GO or Kick the ‘ish out of those CRABS holding on!  I’m just saying!

Crabs in a Pot Video

~Ni’KayCrabs in a Pot

 
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Posted by on January 5, 2016 in Uncategorized

 

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Death Do Us Part

Death Do Us Part

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Coming January 2016

Stay Tuned!  Some women take their vows seriously.  Nola “Cookie” Mason gives new meaning to Death Do Us Part.

 
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Posted by on November 21, 2015 in Uncategorized

 

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A Pass to Cheat


So, Monique says, in the article link below, that allowing your man to cheat is okay.  Hmmm.  She even references the marriage vows and  friendship.  Does cheating go hand in hand with any of those words (marriage, friendship).  Is she a self-proclaimed  Cheater’s Wife?

In my opinion, why get married?  Be single.  Be with who you want… as many people as you want. 
Married and cheating are antonyms of each other!   They just just don’t go together.

Read the article and let me know what you think.  While you are at it, grab your copy of The Cheater’s Wife by going to my website at http://www.authornikay.weebly.com.

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Link to article.  http://www.centrictv.com/entertainment/celebrity-news/articles/2015/11/18/mo-nique-explains-why-she-allows-a-pass-to-cheat-in-marriage.html

 
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Posted by on November 18, 2015 in Uncategorized

 

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New Release Alert: The Cheater’s Wife 2


Get your copy today of the Cheater’s Wife 2.   Need to get caught up?  Get the entire series at http://amzn.to/1G3IErO.

Synopsis:

Is it worth prison? Is it worth losing your marriage? Is it worth your life? Stephanie Perez-Jenkins, Monet Cartier, and Dr. Aubry Johnston never planned to become Cheater’s Wives, but when they do, it turns their lives upside down.
This dramatic sequel has lots of unsuspecting twists and turns and is full of eye-popping drama. It’s easy to say what you won’t do  until you are a Cheater’s Wife.

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Posted by on November 12, 2015 in Uncategorized

 

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Character Conflict


OMG!  Why am I in conflict with my characters?  Chelsea and Asia are really starting to get Out of Control.  I don’t know which one is the good one and which is the bad.  Could they both be so different that they are really alike?  I don’t know.  I just know that it is about to go down between the two of them.

 
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Posted by on November 24, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

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Tattooed Impressions


Today, I finally came to a crossroads in my life.  I am leaving one opportunity to pursue another, health and family.  As I transition, I decided to put my feelings into writing.  I hope that the people that I have met in my life will have wonderfully tattooed impressions of me on their minds, as I do them!

Tattooed Reflections
 
In life you always find
that you will meet people of many kinds
and in a moments time
you have these beautifully tattooed impressions
of all the great memories on your mind.
 
In life you always find
that the ones you will miss most
and the bonds that you form
will last a life-time.
 
In life you always find
that there will be good
there will be bad
and there will be sad times.
 
In life you will always find
that the people you meet
the paths you cross
the bonds you make
the time you have sought
will be beautifully tattooed impressions
magnificently tattooed reflections
undeniably tattooed connections
that will be etched in your heart and mind for all times!
 
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Posted by on June 12, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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