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Are you that Crab in a Pot?

Are you that Crab in a Pot?

Have you ever noticed how crabs that are caught in a net, dangling from the end of the bait, about to be cooked in a pot, hold on to each other for dear life? I know you have noticed. You can’t help but notice. Well, they grab each other by the legs and by the claws and they pull and pull until they damn near break each other’s legs off. In some cases, they do break off the legs and claws. In extreme cases, they kill each other. I know you are wondering where this is going, right? Well, if you know me, you know I am fitting to tell you!

Are you a crab? I am not talking about literally a crab, but figuratively speaking. Are you that person that sees your friend, associate, or maybe a rival, getting ahead and you hate on them, sabotage them, or make their accomplishment seem like it is mediocre? In other words, you young folk, may refer to this “crab behavior” as being a “hater”.

Well, I say, don’t hate the player, hate the game. What God Has For You is For You! No man, woman, crab, or hater can take that away. Anyway, back to my crabs, they pull and hold on, but failing to realize that the more they hold on to what the other crab has, the more they put themselves closer to the boiling pot. Humph, I think all of us have been a crab at some point in our lives; however, the crabs that miss the boiling pot are the ones who realize that they must just LET IT GO or Kick the ‘ish out of those CRABS holding on!  I’m just saying!

Crabs in a Pot Video

~Ni’KayCrabs in a Pot

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Posted by on January 5, 2016 in Uncategorized


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Mirror Image

Have you ever looked in the mirror and been ashamed of what you saw or have you ever looked in the the mirror and saw little to no flaws?

The mirror is a true reflection of who you are now, tomorrow, and for the days to come. To change your reflection, you have to change your perception of who you are…you truly are the man in the mirror.

Your mirror image can only reflect back your image.  This means that no matter how much you want to be, look-like, or act like the next man or woman, your reflection will always be YOU! So, be the best you YOU can be.

If you are confused…look in the mirror and repeat after me:

Mirror mirror on the wall… my reflection is the most beautiful of all. Help people to see me as you see me…beautiful inside and out spiritually. Help them to always see a smile. Help them to see through my perception and see a person that is nothing more than the mirror image of a flawless reflection.


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