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Are you that Crab in a Pot?

Are you that Crab in a Pot?

Have you ever noticed how crabs that are caught in a net, dangling from the end of the bait, about to be cooked in a pot, hold on to each other for dear life? I know you have noticed. You can’t help but notice. Well, they grab each other by the legs and by the claws and they pull and pull until they damn near break each other’s legs off. In some cases, they do break off the legs and claws. In extreme cases, they kill each other. I know you are wondering where this is going, right? Well, if you know me, you know I am fitting to tell you!

Are you a crab? I am not talking about literally a crab, but figuratively speaking. Are you that person that sees your friend, associate, or maybe a rival, getting ahead and you hate on them, sabotage them, or make their accomplishment seem like it is mediocre? In other words, you young folk, may refer to this “crab behavior” as being a “hater”.

Well, I say, don’t hate the player, hate the game. What God Has For You is For You! No man, woman, crab, or hater can take that away. Anyway, back to my crabs, they pull and hold on, but failing to realize that the more they hold on to what the other crab has, the more they put themselves closer to the boiling pot. Humph, I think all of us have been a crab at some point in our lives; however, the crabs that miss the boiling pot are the ones who realize that they must just LET IT GO or Kick the ‘ish out of those CRABS holding on!  I’m just saying!

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~Ni’KayCrabs in a Pot

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Posted by on January 5, 2016 in Uncategorized


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Posted by on November 22, 2015 in Uncategorized


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Death Do Us Part

Death Do Us Part


Coming January 2016

Stay Tuned!  Some women take their vows seriously.  Nola “Cookie” Mason gives new meaning to Death Do Us Part.

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Posted by on November 21, 2015 in Uncategorized


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A Pass to Cheat

So, Monique says, in the article link below, that allowing your man to cheat is okay.  Hmmm.  She even references the marriage vows and  friendship.  Does cheating go hand in hand with any of those words (marriage, friendship).  Is she a self-proclaimed  Cheater’s Wife?

In my opinion, why get married?  Be single.  Be with who you want… as many people as you want. 
Married and cheating are antonyms of each other!   They just just don’t go together.

Read the article and let me know what you think.  While you are at it, grab your copy of The Cheater’s Wife by going to my website at


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Posted by on November 18, 2015 in Uncategorized


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Never Say Never

Thank you.  My series The Cheater’s Wife has been a success.  I am really excited about that.  I attribute much of the success of the series to the fact that I think many people can relate.  If you cant, please don’t ever say NEVER.   Or, that will never be ME!

It’s easy to say what you won’t do or  wouldn’t do until you have walked that walk.  It is easy to say leave that man or woman, until it’s your man or woman.  Get it?


I hope that if you haven’t purchased your copy of the Cheater’s Wife series you will download it today!

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Posted by on November 13, 2015 in Uncategorized


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New Release Alert: The Cheater’s Wife 2

Get your copy today of the Cheater’s Wife 2.   Need to get caught up?  Get the entire series at


Is it worth prison? Is it worth losing your marriage? Is it worth your life? Stephanie Perez-Jenkins, Monet Cartier, and Dr. Aubry Johnston never planned to become Cheater’s Wives, but when they do, it turns their lives upside down.
This dramatic sequel has lots of unsuspecting twists and turns and is full of eye-popping drama. It’s easy to say what you won’t do  until you are a Cheater’s Wife.


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Posted by on November 12, 2015 in Uncategorized


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Love Hurts

Love hurts sometimes, even when you love or are in love.  Some say that there is a difference, but I don’t see one at all.  Love is love regardless of who or where it comes from.  You can give love.  You can get love. You can take love.  But in order to secure love, you must make sacrifices.  These sacrifices may not feel nice.  These sacrifices may hurt so bad that they don’t seem like love at all.  You may even begin to think that love is hate.  However, love is not hate, but love is sacrifice. 

At times you may have to sacrifice your time, your money, your space, your life, your friends, your family, or your heart!  Oh, your heart. How fragile it is!  Your heart is an organ…an organ…that is it.  But love is a feeling that people “associate” with the heart.  However, it is a feeling inside, but inside your soul.  It shines so bright that nothing can hide it. You love so HARD that know one can deny it. It doesn’t matter if you are young or old…love will hurt!

However, don’t expect love to do all the work.  Love alone won’t always keep things tight.  Love expects for the individuals to do their part and do it right.  Love has friends that you may need to get to know.  Patience, honesty, trust, responsibility, compassion, attentiveness, and many, many more.  You need to get to know them if you want love to grow.  Yes, LOVE may hurt, but pain goes away in time.  However, if your love continues to hurt, then love may be nothing more than something only in YOUR mind.

Yes, love hurts because love is not perfect.  Love is definitely not vain.  Love is not choosy.  Love is not always sane.  Some people are CRAZY in Love. Love can come in all forms and sizes.  Love can give you all kinds of surprises.

However, if love hurts to touch, then love isn’t love at all.  Love is a facade for a relationship gone wrong.

©Author Ni’Kay

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Posted by on March 27, 2012 in Uncategorized


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